Well, I am a mom!!!

jaypea

Cathlete
Hi Everyone! I knew he was coming early:) At 5:00a.m. last Monday, my water broke-very strange sensation if this has never happened to you. I woke up my DH, called the dr., and in an hour, we were on the way to the hospital to have the baby.

When I got settled in the room, the nurse hooked me up to a monitor, and I was having contractions that were about 5 minutes apart. i didn't even feel them at first even though they were registering. I sat in a rocking chair, and then I began to feel them (OUCH!!!) in my back. I had mixed feelings about getting an epidural, but once I felt those contractions, I asked for one, and within the hour, I had one. It took the pain away instantly, and I gained a new best friend (the dr. who gave me the epidural). The dr. checked me soon after checking in, and I was 100% effaced, 4 cm. dilated. Around 1:00, I was 8 cm.

Around 3:00p.m., I was 10 cm. dilated, so I began to push soon after. The dr.'s changed shifts, but I was lucky enough to have the same nurse-she was working a 12 hour shift that day, and she was wonderful! The pushing was strange because I couldn't feel much, and after a while, I began to get a bad pain in my back. I mentioned it to the dr. and nurse, and they said it was probably just my pelvis trying to stretch. My pushing was a bit compromised due to that back pain-it would get worse when I pushed. Around 6:30p.m., still no baby, and the dr. was starting to get concerned that the baby was not making very much progress, so we discussed using the vacuum, and he did about 3 times, but it didn't work. The baby would come down the canal and go right back up. So, around 6:45-we decided to do a C-Section-it was the safest way to go. the baby was stuck! My worst nightmare!!!

Now, during the c-section, I felt some pain, and it wasn't pretty. I wonder if it had something to do with that strange back pain I had felt (even though I had the epidural). I screamed out in agony and was given some happy gas along with other stuff to help. I guess it kind of helped, but I still felt it. well, anyway, at 8:00p.m. I delivered a healthy baby boy named Andrew Michael, 7 pd, 4 oz, 19 1/2 inches long with a very healthy set of lungs!!!

The first thing I asked the dr. was if I could have another baby, and he said yes, but highly recommends a C-Section again-I couldn't agree more!!! I never, ever want to go through that again!

So, I was discharged on Thursday, and the first day and night at home were torture, but each day and night is getting better as we get used to each other. I am still pretty sore, and I go to the dr. on MOnday to get the staples taken out. I also tore, but I don't think those stiches come out.

So, that's my story for you. I still may check in from time to time to see what everyone is up to. I now have to find a new mothers group here.

By the way, if anyone here has ever had a c-section, was it as painful as mine? Let me know!

Thanks for all of your support throughout my pregnancy!
love, Jen
due 3/31 (but God had other plans)
 
Congratulations! Isn't being a mom terrific? Did you ever think you could love someone so much you just met? After the birth of each of our kids, I saw my husband so differently. He was no longer just my life partner, my other half, the love of my life; he became the father of my children! Totally amazing.

I had a c-section with my first, and I didn't feel a thing during, but afterwards....OUCH! I have had two vaginal deliveries since then with no drugs, and I have to say as much as they hurt I prefer that to c-sections. They suck and you couldn't pay me $10,000,000 to do it again! But isn't the joy of your little love bundle worth all of he pain we have to go through?

Congratulations again, and we better not see you around here again any time soon!
 
Congratulations Jen!!!! What an arduous birth experience you had! I'm sorry to hear the c-section was so painful for you; I hope you have a quick recovery. Thank you for writing in such detail about your birth.

Welcome to the world, Andrew Michael!!!

Sandra
 
Hi Jen!

Congratulations! I just delivered as well- I went through so many emotions during the whole experience! Take care of yourself, and let us know how you and Andrew are doing! How is your strength? I am finding hard to sleep in a comfortable position. Darn! I was hoping that would end once the pregnancy ended!

Jennifer
Eric born on March 20, 2005:7
 
Congrats Jen! That is WONDERFUL news! Glad to hear everyone is doing well! Sorry to hear about your troubles during the birthing process/c-section but I'm sure that you already know how worth it it is! :7 :+ I can't wait for it to be my turn!!!!:7

Have a great work out!

~Wendy~

I smoked my last cigarette on March 17, 2004 at 10:00 pm!

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Congratulations, Jen! You're going to love motherhood. I also had to have a c-section due to protracted active labor. I did not experience any pain during the procedure, just a mild tingling sensation in my left breast. Of course I was sore after but it was manageable. I was exhausted, too, because my labor was long. Just try to rest as much as you can to help heal faster. Enjoy your little one's newborn days because they really do fly by fast!

Diana
Nora born 8/23/04
 
Congrats Jen!!!

I'm so glad your little one is healthy! I had a c-section and did not have any pain in the OR. I do think that is a very unusual experiance. I've had 2 friends go through extremely hard and long labor's just to have a c-section after 18 hours of labor, not fun. Just let yourself recoop. Oh, also remember be kind to your body as it recoops and don't push it. We all look forward to hearing more about Andrew!:)
 
Wow! Congratulations! I am so very happy for you, and happy birthday to Andrew Michael! What a great name. Have fun and try to relax during this wonderful time of your lives!

Lisa
 

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