janiejoey
Cathlete
Hi Everyone,
My husband of 16 years hit me with his fist 3 times last night. Once behind my shoulder, then on my shoulder, and when I was trying to prevent being hit anymore I tried to kick him. That made him even more mad, so he hit me on the side of my head and flew my glasses off.
I was scared, angry and wanted to shout out. So I told him from the top of my lungs to get out of here. Several times to where my throat hurt. Probably not a very good thing to do. I finely dialed 911. And they took him away. I don't know what happens next. He no longer can e-mail me, mail me any letters, phone or anything to communicate with me. They probably told me for how long that would be, but I don't remember. I don't even know if I can tell his family. They should know. Tomorrow I'll asked those questions from the phone number they gave me.
It was over a stupid thing that doesn't even matter. The point is, is that I'm reaching out to vent everywhere I can, because I think it helps me to do that. Plus if anyone out there has had this done to them it would be great to share with other people, so they also would know what to do under those circumstances.
The saddest part about it is my grandson is here. And he was very smart and hid and locked in the bathroom door until the police arrived. We talked in front of the policeman, and I asked him if he wanted to stay or go home. My dear little one said if you want me to stay then I will. I told him I would love for him to stay. So he is here now with me, safe and his mother will pick him up tonight. We have stories to tell her.
Please know I have support from my family members on this horrible situation. But I wanted all of you to know because I want people out there to understand that there is help. You just need to get it and be safe.
I'm also very worried about my husband. Not once in our marriage did he hurt me physically. We got angry with each other sometimes to the point where we needed our own space for a few days, but never did he strike out. I'm just wondering if something is happening to him mentally or physically. I guess time will tell.
Thanks for the vent,
Janie
The idea is to die young as late as possible
http://www.picturetrail.com/janiejoey
My husband of 16 years hit me with his fist 3 times last night. Once behind my shoulder, then on my shoulder, and when I was trying to prevent being hit anymore I tried to kick him. That made him even more mad, so he hit me on the side of my head and flew my glasses off.
I was scared, angry and wanted to shout out. So I told him from the top of my lungs to get out of here. Several times to where my throat hurt. Probably not a very good thing to do. I finely dialed 911. And they took him away. I don't know what happens next. He no longer can e-mail me, mail me any letters, phone or anything to communicate with me. They probably told me for how long that would be, but I don't remember. I don't even know if I can tell his family. They should know. Tomorrow I'll asked those questions from the phone number they gave me.
It was over a stupid thing that doesn't even matter. The point is, is that I'm reaching out to vent everywhere I can, because I think it helps me to do that. Plus if anyone out there has had this done to them it would be great to share with other people, so they also would know what to do under those circumstances.
The saddest part about it is my grandson is here. And he was very smart and hid and locked in the bathroom door until the police arrived. We talked in front of the policeman, and I asked him if he wanted to stay or go home. My dear little one said if you want me to stay then I will. I told him I would love for him to stay. So he is here now with me, safe and his mother will pick him up tonight. We have stories to tell her.
Please know I have support from my family members on this horrible situation. But I wanted all of you to know because I want people out there to understand that there is help. You just need to get it and be safe.
I'm also very worried about my husband. Not once in our marriage did he hurt me physically. We got angry with each other sometimes to the point where we needed our own space for a few days, but never did he strike out. I'm just wondering if something is happening to him mentally or physically. I guess time will tell.
Thanks for the vent,
Janie
The idea is to die young as late as possible
http://www.picturetrail.com/janiejoey
