Wow! Thanks Everyone!
OK, I really feel the need to address the "bulk" thing. Two years ago (prior to various injuries) I was super cut. At the time I couldn't appreciate it and always wanted more. Now because of so many over use exericse injuries, I have lost some of the look I had. I was seriously down to what was probably an unhealthy weight for me (my periods were coming every 50 some odd days, I was extremely irritable and exhausted). I had a ton of definition with veins and cuts and all the stuff a lot of us on here are striving for. I happen to be one of those people who does build muscle easily. At that time when I would focus on gym styles and go as heavy as possible, I would look bigger. I was still cut, but I didn't like how big I looked. I'm sure people thought I was nuts, but that's just the way it was. I discovered through trial and error that I could use Gym Styles, but not soley. I just want to make that clear. I wasn't someone who needed to gain muscle. It was already there. I was looking for further definition without the size of my arms looking bigger.
Unfortuantely a year dealing with a herniated disc forced me to stop weights. So sad. Very depressing. Horrible time. Plus the plantar fasciitis. It all just sucked. I'm now back in business with the disc stuff (thanks to a book called Healing Back Pain by Dr. John Sarno). I've been back to good 'ole Cathe for 5 months now. Just upper body weight work because of the plantar fasciitis which is the bane of my existence. I've done every treatment for it known to man and am still plagued with it. I guess the one treatment I never did try was TOTAL rest. But I digress...
So, now that I'm using weights again, I'm seeing things coming back and I'm very excited about it. I have defintion again. I want to continue on this road and follow what I know has worked before. I just really want to add some new stuff.
I once had Amy Bento's Slo Mo in my shopping cart online, but then didn't order it. I also never got Cathe's. I have every single DVD of Cathe's but that. Maybe it's time to give Amy a try. I should have mentioned that I do have all of Jari's. I totally forgot about that because I just can't get into it. I know I need to give her a try again. The DVD's collect dust. I do own P90X. I got it for my husband (I was injured at the time), but have watched many of them. I just don't think I could stomach him (forgot his name) that often. Though his stretch DVD does make me laugh out loud. I really do think he makes funny comments in that one.
So, I guess maybe I should go the Amy Bento route and try Jari again. I always found her DVDs at Ross for like 4 bucks, so I accumulated them. I think I did purchase one full price.
Anyway, I'm just babbling at this point. I really do thank all of you for your suggestions. I will re-read this thread and think about the other ideas you all mentioned. Thanks so much!
--Jennifer

P.S. Came back to say, I know some may say I need to go heavy to get back muscle, but at this point I'm feeling pretty good about the amount I have. I can match Cathe again on almost everything. The strength came back pretty quickly!