aveggiegirl
Cathlete
How are you doing Melanie? I haven't seen you post in a while. Are you back to work yet?
Melanie???
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melanalyus
Cathlete
That's so sweet of you to think about me. Thank you!
Yes, I did start my new job. It's alot of new stuff to learn, but I think I will like it.
My miscarriage has been really really hard on me. More than I ever could imagine. I will get thru it, but I'm far from it right now. I sometimes just burst out in tears---out of no where.
I don't really know where I "belong" right now in the forum. The TTC/Pg forum is really tough for me for now. We'll see I guess.
Thanks again for asking, and thinking of me.
Yes, I did start my new job. It's alot of new stuff to learn, but I think I will like it.
My miscarriage has been really really hard on me. More than I ever could imagine. I will get thru it, but I'm far from it right now. I sometimes just burst out in tears---out of no where.
I don't really know where I "belong" right now in the forum. The TTC/Pg forum is really tough for me for now. We'll see I guess.
Thanks again for asking, and thinking of me.
Shopahollic
Cathlete
Mel- It is normal to still be grieving! It is eespecially tough though for you due to all the other stress. Have you considered some short term counseling? Too bad you are across the country, or I'd counsel you! Sending cyber hugs your waY!
melanalyus
Cathlete
Thanks Elyse. I don't think I need counseling at this point. It's just nice to talk it out with people who are willing to listen. It has only been a little over 2weeks & a new job is a major life change as well.
I'll be okay---I'm just not yet there.
I'll be okay---I'm just not yet there.
Shopahollic
Cathlete
Mel- I am glad to hear you are slowly healing. It is a slow process though and I am sure alot of people mimimize what you are feeling since you already have 3 kids. It still doesn't lesson the pain and the grief!
Hi Melanie
Melanie - I'm glad you're enjoying your new job! I'm sorry you're still sad, but it takes a while to get over and I'm not sure you ever do. There are still times I look back on my 3 angels and just have to cry. My last was April and it's still sad for me...I've got 3 ladies sooooo pregnant at work and it's so hard to see them at the point that I would be at now. I would've been due in November of this year, so that month is going to be a tough one for me.
Keeping you in my prayers too. So far, I'm now on Femara this month and getting u/s to time our BD. Hoping something happens for me in the next few months. We've only been averaging a pregnancy a year, so it's tough now that I'm 39. It's looking more and more like I won't have my own baby before 40. Anyway, I didn't mean to be depressing in this e-mail, but I guess I needed to vent too!
Anne
Melanie - I'm glad you're enjoying your new job! I'm sorry you're still sad, but it takes a while to get over and I'm not sure you ever do. There are still times I look back on my 3 angels and just have to cry. My last was April and it's still sad for me...I've got 3 ladies sooooo pregnant at work and it's so hard to see them at the point that I would be at now. I would've been due in November of this year, so that month is going to be a tough one for me.
Keeping you in my prayers too. So far, I'm now on Femara this month and getting u/s to time our BD. Hoping something happens for me in the next few months. We've only been averaging a pregnancy a year, so it's tough now that I'm 39. It's looking more and more like I won't have my own baby before 40. Anyway, I didn't mean to be depressing in this e-mail, but I guess I needed to vent too!
Anne
melanalyus
Cathlete
Thanks for sharing, Anne. I think of you often. You're a precious forum-friend and hope that you will soon become a mommy. I"m not sure if my womb will be open again, God willing. I'm praying that YOUR womb will carry a precious wee-one to a healthy term. Being a mother is truely the BEST thing that has ever happened to me.
I didn't know they used Femara for conceiving. What is BD?
I didn't know they used Femara for conceiving. What is BD?
Hey Mel,
How was your Holiday weekend? Pretty good here, just really relaxing. Yup, Femara is used like Clomid, but not quite the bad side effects. Oh, and BD is 'baby dance' or having sex! Some terminology from Fertility Friend that I belong too. I forget that not everyone has issues with fertility here and assume everyone knows all the acronyms.
How are you doing?
Anne
How was your Holiday weekend? Pretty good here, just really relaxing. Yup, Femara is used like Clomid, but not quite the bad side effects. Oh, and BD is 'baby dance' or having sex! Some terminology from Fertility Friend that I belong too. I forget that not everyone has issues with fertility here and assume everyone knows all the acronyms.
How are you doing?
Anne