Labor and delivery story (long post)

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At birth, Derek weighed 7 lbs 10 oz and was 20.5 inches long.

I hope I forget how bad this labor was before I have my next child. :*

On Monday the 26th, I felt what I thought were just gas pains on and off all day, and didn't think anything of it. Then, at 10:00 PM, it started to get more painful, and started every 10 minutes or so. I paged the OB on call and she said not to go to the hospital until they were five minutes apart. By 1:30 AM, they were five minutes apart and getting progessively more painful. The OB on call said to leave for the hospital. I thought she was going to meet me at the hospital, but she didn't.

Once at the hospital, I was placed in a triage room. The contractions were 3-5 minutes apart and hurt beyond belief. I consider myself to have a relatively high pain threshold from all the running I've done (and IMaxes), but this pain was far beyond that level. Surprisingly, I was only 1 cm dilated and effaced maybe 30 percent! (Note: I had shown no signs of dilation or effacement at my last OB appointment the week before.) The nurse assigned to me didn't give me any pain medication at first. She recommended walking around the labor/delivery ward to help progress the labor. That didn't last too long, as I was unable to walk very far before throwing up. Next, the nurse recommended taking a whirlpool bath. I tried, but by this time I was in agony and was throwing up again. Lamaze-style breathing exercises didn't help at that point. I remember screaming that I needed drugs or I wasn't going to be able to bear it anymore. The nurse got a hold of the OB on call, and at last, I was given an IV of a morphine derivative (I forget the exact name, it starts with a D, not Demerol). It didn't numb me to the contractions, but I was able to breathe through them.

At this point, it was 6:00 AM on Tuesday the 27th. By then, I was only 2 cm dilated and 40 percent effaced. I couldn't believe it, considering the strength and duration of the contractions (60-90 seconds every 2 to 5 minutes). I went through a couple of IV bags of morphine before I was given Demarol. At about 2:00 PM, I was almost 4 cm dilated and 60 percent effaced, and at last, I was
given an epidural. For the next six hours, I watched the strength and duration of the contractions on the fetal monitor. They were still quite strong. The baby's heart rate steadily increased from about 120 bpm to 150-160 bpm.

I was examined every couple of hours. The farthest I got was 6 cm dilated and 60 percent effaced. At 8:00 PM, my OB told me that he wanted to do a C-section, as it would be best for the baby and myself. I was very frightened to hear this news, as I had never really considered that I would ever need to have a C-section. My epidural dose was increased, and I was wheeled to the OR. I cried the whole time. I couldn't stop being so scared. Once the surgery began, I felt a LOT of yanking and tugging, but no pain. I did feel a burning sensation in my vagina, which was also disconcerting. Apparently, that sensation is normal. Perhaps ten minutes passed, and then my husband, who was standing next to my head, said, "There's his head!" A few
seconds later, I heard a loud cry. My husband cut the cord (not that I could see) and then Derek was briefly brought behind the curtain, still covered in vernix. He was shown to me again after he was cleaned up, and I was told to kiss his head, which I happily did.

There was more yanking and tugging as I was sewn up, and then I was wheeled to the recovery room. I was still crying, but because I couldn't get up and hold my son. At this point, both my husband and myself had been awake for over 40 hours straight. Neither of us were coherent. I did manage to get some sleep, but the rest of the night was a total blur.

We have been home for three days now, and nothing is routine yet! Derek is doing fine. I'm still a bit sore, but it's getting better by the day.

I look forward to joining the post-partum checkin when I get the doctor's OK. :)
 
((((Adrienne)))--what a labor story. I'm sorry it was soooo tough. Nothing on this earth hurts quite like labor contractions. And having an unexpected C section would be hard also. I hope you and your husband are able to catch up on much needed rest.

And again, I'm glad that although it was an unusually hard labor experience that everything turned out well.

I'm next!

Maggie
5 days, 10 hours, 33 min to go:p
 
Yea! Thanks for the details. I've been patiently waiting them. When I saw your post, I wanted to make sure it had my full attention before replying.

Wonderful story. Thanks for sharing. Now a couple of questions. Did your dr try to induce you at all? With Pictocin or Oxytocin? Also, did your water break at all?

My 2nd delivery was an unplanned CSection, it took me a long time to get over feeling like a failure...however now I know there was nothing I could have done to prevent it. Unlike you, I am put completely OUT for my CSections...so I don't feel any pulling or tugging (not sure if I'd like that).

Anway, I"m glad you and Derek are doing good.I look forward to seeing you at postpartum check-ins. Feel free to check in even now that you're not exercising yet, K? Give Derek a smooch for me. :)

**Melanie**
Jadon born 11/23/05
Justin born 1/17/04
Jory born 4/9/94

" Take care of your body like it will last a lifetime. Take care of your soul like it will last for eternity"
 
Thank you for sharing your story Adrienne. I've heard many first birth experiences that have been so tough. I was just like you in that I THOUGHT I could handle pain well, but there is NOTHING like childbirth pain and nothing can prepare you for it (they try, but it's still not understandable until you go through it). I remember thinking all those Lamaze breathing techniques were ridiculous in helping the pain. Your next birth can be completely different and at least you know more about what "kind of pain" you are dealing with.

Most importantly....you have a beautiful healthy baby and I'm hoping you can get some rest and enjoy your little one. Hugs and congratulations.

Briee
 
Thanks, Maggie and Melanie and Briee, for the supportive replies. :) Maggie, I hope you are OK and that if you are in labor right now, it is as easy as being in labor can be...

Pitocin was indeed involved. It was given to me about an hour after the epidural. My water broke naturally soon after that.

As soon as I was told that a c-section would be necessary, I just went along with the flow because I was so frightened. The anesthesiologist advised me that if there were any complications, he would use general anesthesia. I guess their protocol is to just use the epidural first, then general if the need arises.

Looking back, there was nothing I could have done to prevent the c-seciton from happening. I am just so grateful that my son is healthy. I took him to his pediatrician for his 1 week checkup today, and he is doing just fine. He's gained back most of the weight he lost after being born. I am breastfeeding, which is an adventure in and of itself! I will write more after I get some much needed sleep...
 
CONGRATULATIONS...I am so happy that you have a healthy baby. Try and get some rest and keep us posted.
 
Congrats on your little one! Sorry labor didn't go as you had hoped, it often does not, that goes for both of my pregnancies! I hope you heal quickly and can exercise soon! :)
 

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