Inspired by an ongoing thread - when it comes to parenting
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acatalina
Cathlete
Having a child was the best thing i ever did. You never believe you can love something that much as your own child, except your grandkids...
It was tough at times, but i would do it again in a heartbeat...
Anne
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It was tough at times, but i would do it again in a heartbeat...
Anne
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dorothyrd
Cathlete
Happy, but has its rough moments. I kind of feel the rough moments make me a better parent and person. I found that after I went back to work full time, after being a SAHM for 17 years I had much more patience with my co-workers than I did before I had children. My problem solving skills are better too.
aschendell
Cathlete
I can tell you that I wasn't a reluctant parent, but I never thought that I HAD to be a mother to be fulfilled...With that being said...I cannot imagine my life without my precious one...and would do it again in a heartbeat...that also being said, my DH and I are incredibly happy with only having one child. We will never have more kids...and are completely content with our lives!
Debra
Bite off more than you can chew. Then chew it---Ella Williams
Debra
Bite off more than you can chew. Then chew it---Ella Williams
deanie
Cathlete
I voted: very happy. I love being a parent! If I was younger when I started having kids, I would have had at least one more! (I was 31 and 34 when I had my kids) I think it is very fullfilling and makes me feel like I have a purpose in life. 
Deanie
"This is a Blast- act like you are having one!" Cathe Friedrich
Deanie
"This is a Blast- act like you are having one!" Cathe Friedrich
When I was young I thought I would never want children, then I got married, thought maybe we would try (no big deal if we didn't), then could not get pregnant (was worried Oh no what's wrong) Now four children later!! I know I am so blessed!! I could not imagine my life with out them, sure it is chaotic at times and can be hard but I would not trade a minute!!
I must admit I never (maybe too strong a word) cared for or was good around my friends kids, but just adore my own!
Jen
I must admit I never (maybe too strong a word) cared for or was good around my friends kids, but just adore my own!
Jen
MadnNatsmom
Cathlete
Love being a mom. For me, there is nothing as fulfulling OR challenging. Challenging because I want to raise children who are content, faithful, honest with integrity.
But, as the saying goes "Nothing worth having comes easily."
But, as the saying goes "Nothing worth having comes easily."
Couldn't find an applicable choice on the poll.
As a parent I'm ok, my kids (twins 18 yo, one autistic and the other bipolar & adhd) have taught me a lot. They are wonderful people. Had I known that parenthood was going to be a lifelong "sentence" I might have chosen otherwise.
As a parent I'm ok, my kids (twins 18 yo, one autistic and the other bipolar & adhd) have taught me a lot. They are wonderful people. Had I known that parenthood was going to be a lifelong "sentence" I might have chosen otherwise.
beautifulsoul
Cathlete
I love being a mom, I can't imagine my life w/out my son. Of course it's rough sometimes with his ADHD but worth every minute of it, especially when he brings me pictures that he drew and it says on the back, "I heart you mom so so muth." (much)
endorphin_junkie
Cathlete
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I've raised my 3 daughters on my own since they were 3, 6 and 8. I certainly wasn't basking in happiness on a daily basis through many of those difficult early years, quite the contrary. During different phases of my journey with the Girls I could honestly vote in any of the categories except the 'had I known, never had them'. I never, ever wished they hadn't been born, those 3 little girls saved me from myself. They are now 12, 15 and 17 and are 3 smart, confident, compassionate, beautiful (inside and out) young woman who do me proud everytime we go out together. My heart swells to see them and they have allowed me to know myself in ways that would have remained a mystery had they not graced my life with their collective presence. Being their mother is the centre of my existence, everthing else orbits around them and I wouldn't have it any other way!
Take Care
Laurie
I've raised my 3 daughters on my own since they were 3, 6 and 8. I certainly wasn't basking in happiness on a daily basis through many of those difficult early years, quite the contrary. During different phases of my journey with the Girls I could honestly vote in any of the categories except the 'had I known, never had them'. I never, ever wished they hadn't been born, those 3 little girls saved me from myself. They are now 12, 15 and 17 and are 3 smart, confident, compassionate, beautiful (inside and out) young woman who do me proud everytime we go out together. My heart swells to see them and they have allowed me to know myself in ways that would have remained a mystery had they not graced my life with their collective presence. Being their mother is the centre of my existence, everthing else orbits around them and I wouldn't have it any other way!
Take Care
Laurie
RE: Inspired by an ongoing thread - when it comes to pa...
I voted for the 2nd choice, although I would do it again in a heartbeat. I would really like to try for a third (Dh is not so sure about that ;-) ). It is hard right now because my children are still very young, I'm a SAHM, my husband has a busy job, and we move a lot so I'm always having to find new friends (and no relatives close by). That's why I chose the second option. I wouldn't trade being a mother for anything!
I voted for the 2nd choice, although I would do it again in a heartbeat. I would really like to try for a third (Dh is not so sure about that ;-) ). It is hard right now because my children are still very young, I'm a SAHM, my husband has a busy job, and we move a lot so I'm always having to find new friends (and no relatives close by). That's why I chose the second option. I wouldn't trade being a mother for anything!
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I agree with you most, Laurie. Sometimes I feel like I can't wait to get my life back but I have never regretted for a SECOND having my children - and I didn't have them because I thought I should, either. Most of the time I am sublimely happy, but it is definitely very challenging being a mom - nothing stretches you, twists you, bends you, tests you, or brings out your weeknesses like being a mom. Being a mom is the greatest thing that has ever happened to me and I feel like life is so much more when it can be seen through the eyes of a child. Our last child was a big surprise and we really didn't want anymore children, but I can't imagine my life w/o him and I don't want to.
I agree with you most, Laurie. Sometimes I feel like I can't wait to get my life back but I have never regretted for a SECOND having my children - and I didn't have them because I thought I should, either. Most of the time I am sublimely happy, but it is definitely very challenging being a mom - nothing stretches you, twists you, bends you, tests you, or brings out your weeknesses like being a mom. Being a mom is the greatest thing that has ever happened to me and I feel like life is so much more when it can be seen through the eyes of a child. Our last child was a big surprise and we really didn't want anymore children, but I can't imagine my life w/o him and I don't want to.
JeanneMarie
Cathlete
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My son is the joy of my life! I can't imagine being without him. He has always been an easy, happy child and even now at the age of 19 has never given us a moment's trouble. I am a very lucky Mom.
My son is the joy of my life! I can't imagine being without him. He has always been an easy, happy child and even now at the age of 19 has never given us a moment's trouble. I am a very lucky Mom.
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So many moms/dads taking joy in their kids, even through the hard times! I know alot of people who do nothing but b***h about the kids, so it's really nice to read
Taking my non-mommy self out of the thread now....
Sparrow
My garden is filled with papayas and mangos
My life is a mixture of reggaes and tangos
Taste for the good life, I can live it no other way
- Jimmy Buffett
So many moms/dads taking joy in their kids, even through the hard times! I know alot of people who do nothing but b***h about the kids, so it's really nice to read
Taking my non-mommy self out of the thread now....
Sparrow
My garden is filled with papayas and mangos
My life is a mixture of reggaes and tangos
Taste for the good life, I can live it no other way
- Jimmy Buffett
pink_fortitude
Banned
I am so happy to see so many happy parents!!! :7 :7 :7 I LOVE being a parent, I think it is the best thing in the world, but it really does have its moments where you are challenged beyond belief. I never wanted children growing up, NEVER, and now I know that there is no other life for me. I would be happy doing nothing but being a mom.
Missy
Missy
I always tell people it's the hardest job you'll ever have and it doesn't even come with an owner's manual, but it's the most rewarding thing I have ever done. My kids can drive me absolutely looney some days, but the unconditional love that they shower on me is heaven. I very hesitantly had my third in May and can't imagine my life without her now!