Hil has had an eyelift done, very subtle like it should be, great doctor!
Anyway Lauramax, I am with you, I believe in doing very small subtle things now, so that later on I am not dealing with major issues. And no, there is no such thing as 'aging gracefully" if you neglected your skin in your twenties and thirties.

At least that is what I think. I am 41, and have no crows feet and eye wrinkles at all, I started getting the frown lines between the eyes, which I promptly took care of with the "B" word, it works well on the upper lip too. My forehead has a few lines, but I think that looks okay, it seems strange not to hae one or two.
I have noticed more than anything quite frankly, uneven pigmentation which Obagi is hopefully addressing along with laser facials once a year. Plus a loss of volume. I have very strong bone structure, square jaw, prominent cheekbones, but as I age my face looks less "plump" all over-but hey, whatta ya do about that? Sculptra I suppose, but even I have my limits.
About the concealer. I have tried 'em all. I picked up the one by Loreal called "perfect match" and love the creaminess. So far, so good, does not settle into fine lines. Good luck!
