i am shocked beyond words-warning personal

[Beavs]

Frankly, I would feel violated and very uncomfortable in my home. His behavior was completely unprofessional and grounds for dismissal. I would make it perfectly clear to him that you are not interested and do not appreciate his "offer." I think I'd also be looking for an apartment elsewhere.

 

[Stephanie0523]

I would feel a little bit uncomfortable, well, actually a lot uncomfortable knowing that he has access to your apartment. You don't know him or his emotional status and how he deals with rejection. So, if it were me, I'd go buy one of those hotel-like locks that you can install on your door and maybe one of those little alarms (not an alarm system) that fits onto your door so you can turn it on at night and it will go off if someone opens your door. I used to use those alarms in college because I was a little fearful of being on my own.

 

[Beavs]

I agree with Stephanie. You might also want to document the conversation just in case it isn't the last you hear of it (and unfortunately I suspect it won't be).

 

[Gayle]

If he asked you on a date, I wouldn't think much of it, but since he straight out asked you for sex, AND has access to your apartment, I agree with others that the cautious approach is best.

I'd document this with someone AND install a deadbolt.