Hey Michele!
I just finished my first course of Italian, and it was great. You'd think that with my mother being Italian, I could just learn from her, but I suppose I need more structure. The class was a ton of work, done independently long distance, but I learned a lot. That first step is the worst, I think.
The only reason I haven't started the next class is because I am applying to colleges now, and I don't know if they'll allow me to be taking courses from other colleges.
I have been taking Spanish classes for YEARS, but I still can't speak. A few years ago, I could understand and read it very well, but being able to SPEAK is such a big step. I'm too insecure, I think.
Someday, though, I swear, I will be fluent
Immersing yourself in the language and culture is the key, truly. I went to Italy for 1 month a few years ago without having studied Italian at all. By the time I left, I understood quite a bit, was able to imitate the accents very well, and could speak a few words. And I wasn't trying. So once you study for awhile, I think the only way to really succeed is to just get out there and live it. Easier said than done, I know.
Sara