Hi Candice,
That really is a "loaded" question because I'm pretty convinced that there is no perfect answer.
On some websites, according to "their" calculations, I shouldn't consume more than 1400 cal/day (Please, I'd be eating my carpet I'd be so hungry if I tried that!), then according to other sites, I should eat between 1800-2000 cal/day.
I've tried it all, and what I found out for myself was that my body was really the best indicator of all! Now, clearly I don't let it dictate EVERYTHING, but I do set a target, and rather than try to eat to meet the target, I just eat my meals/snacks, record the info (calories/fat/fiber/protein/carbs) and usually by days end I've come in somewhere between 1600-2000 calories. It seems to depend on what my workout was for the day, how busy my overall day was, etc. Some days my body doesn't call for much and I'll come in at around 1600 calories, but other days, especially when it's a heavier weight training/cardio day, i can take in 2000 calories easy! And by writing it all down meal by meal, I see what I'm eating, and can maintain control.
Also, if you make really good choices, like fruits and veggies and whole grains and lean proteins, you really can eat quite a bit without logging a lot of calories. It's the empty food choices that ruin a good day!
I also try to never allow myself to get really hungry. About every 3.5-4 hrs I eat something. Breakfast/snack/lunch/snack/dinner, that way I'm never really hungry or God forbid ravenous, so I can make better choices for my meals.
So, why not try letting your body dictate it's needs for a few days, of course keep a food record/journal of some sort so you can monitor, and see where it seems to land.
How much you work out and your overall activity level make a huge difference in what your body needs for fuel.
Donna