Having a rotten day!

KimDW

Cathlete
I am having such a rotten feeling day. I just feel like going home and watching Oprah and soap operas all day. It's raining here in Illinois and I am so bored here at work that I really just want to take the rest of the day off and get out of here. I'm sorry to be such a whiner (sp?) I know nobody really wants to read this but I need to vent. I'm finally going back to my WW meeting this afternoon (I haven't been for 2 mos.) so I'm not that worried about what the scale is going to say because I'll have to pay for missing my two months. I can't seem to get back into my flow of eating right. I'm exercising faithfully so that's a plus. I'm either good at the food and not consistently exercising or vise versa. I'm never always on track with everything. Has anyone ever had one of those days that you're never satisfied? No matter where you are you want to be somewhere else, no matter what your doing it's boring. I'm hoping that going to this WW meeting this afternoon will motivate me to get back on program. I've got 12 pounds to lose and it's the hardest to get off. Well I think I've babbled enough. Thanks for listening.

Kim
 
Hi, Kim--

I think we ALL have days like that! Try to focus on the positives, such as the fact that you've been consistently exercising--that's tremendous!!! I know just what you mean; I always seem to on track with either eating or exercising, hardly ever both. But the challenge is what keeps us motivated and keeps us trying to do better, right? It's always when you're not very busy (like when you're bored at work) that all these negative thoughts creep into your head (what's that saying, an idle mind is the devil's playground?). Don't let them get to you. I've sort of been feeling like this myself lately; my job is pretty unsatisfying these days, and for some reason I seem to be having month-long PMS this cyclex( , and I find myself feeling negative a lot. What I've been really trying to do is very, very consciously focusing on the positives: I'm healthy. I wake up every day and get out of bed without any help. I do have a job to go to and get paid for, unsatisfying though it may be sometimes. I'm not hungry. I'm not afraid. I have a loving husband and a loving family. It sounds silly, but I really think if you make a conscious effort to feel better, it does help. Coming here and venting helps, too! Do some searches here about eating better. I've found some very helpful, motivational info about eating better that have helped me tremendously. Do an online search for some healthy recipes. Just reading them sometimes motivates you to try them. Do website searches for healthy eating in general; there's so much information out there! And sometimes just reading about changes that you can make will give you the motivation you need. Plus, you're going to WW today! That's probably one of the smartest, healthiest weight management programs out there! Go there and vent your frustrations; I'll bet they'll be ready and willing and thrilled to help bust you out of this rut!

Good luck, take care and feel better!:) :) :)

-Marie
 
Thanks Marie for the encouragement. I'm actually feeling better because even though I'm not going to like what the scale says I'm really looking forward to going back to WW today.

I need to get new food ideas because even though what I eat is not really that bad for me it doesn't do anything for me. I don't eat enough fruits and vegetables with my meals. Here is an example of a standard day.
Breakfast - Toast or Honey Nut Cheerieos with OJ
Snack - Cheese and crackers
Lunch - Salad with feta/cucumber/tomato/some kind of meat
or PBJ or lunch meat on white with baked chips
Snack - Fat Free Vanila Pudding snack
Dinner - Varies alot - My husband isn't home alot in the evenings so I usually don't fix "a dinner"
Also - if I fall asleep on the couch in the evening after the gym
I wake up desperately needing something sweet. Do you ever get like this?

I'm going to go to the store this week and get a more variety of food.

Kim:)
 
Hey Kim--

So its a PITY POT DAY.(that's what my girlfriends and I say.) We tease eachother..."move over..I need to get on"..so I say--Go for it...Get on the Pity Pot and let it Roar...We all have them...Probably a brain/hormone chemistry thing-like everything else eh? .I figure it is best to let it out and move on when your ready....Take Care...Pamper yourself...Pull up your bootstraps when your ready...until then ....Let it Roar!!!

Smiles -
Samantha
 
Yeah, it's tough to keep the food interesting and healthy at the same time, isn't it? Unless you're someone that loves to cook and keeps lots of good healthy ingredients in the house, it's always a struggle! It looks like you have a good plan going in terms of spreading your meals out during the day, so that's good. I was a strict "three meals a day" person and found that when I waited to eat between meals, by the time the meal rolled around, I was starving and would eat way too much! My day now looks a lot more like yours. I try to look at the total calories for the day and then try to stick to that. Not that I'm a strict calorie-counter by any means, but I just try to be more aware of how many calories something has before I mindlessly eat it. For example, I read somewhere that if you cut 100 calories out of your daily diet, you would lose something like 10 pounds in a year. Then I took a look at what I was eating/drinking each day and tried to make some changes that wouldn't make me feel too deprived. I'm not a coffee drinker, but I do have a Snapple iced tea every morning. So I switched to Diet Snapple and chopped 200 calories off my daily intake right there. It took a while to get used to it, but now I like it just as much as the regular, and I feel good about the 200 fewer calories. I also took a good look at portion sizes. I, too, have cereal every morning (Total Raisin Bran). I usually get ready for work before I eat, so I'm pretty hungry by the time I sit down and would pour a pretty good sized bowl of cereal. I looked at the portion size on the box and saw that it was one cup. Well, when I measured what I was eating every day, it was at least twice that! So now I limit it to one cup. And I actually feel better for this change--I'm not "stuffed" like I used to be when I was done! I've also started making my lunch at home every day instead of eating out. Even though I'd try to make good choices outside, the food you make yourself is always better since you have total control over it. I choose light wheat bread, which is only about 35 calories a slice (you can't believe how many calories are in some breads!). And I usually have turkey instead of something higher in fat. If I'm really energetic, I'll put lettuce in it to sneak in a vegetable, but I don't do that all the time. Just by making these few small changes, I've actually lost some weight. I'm not sure how much because I don't usually weigh myself, but my clothes are all fitting much more loosely and I've actually had to buy some in a smaller size! It's probably been about four or five months since I started making these changes. My next challenge is to improve my eating at night. During the day I'm usually very good. Even if someone brings food into work, I'm not usually all that tempted. Evening/night time is definitely my weak area. I usually work out right when I get home, because if I didn't, I'd sit on the couch and just chow! The time between my workout/shower and dinner is where I need to change. I'm so hungry, and dinner's not ready, so I go into total snack mode! If I'm smart and buy good stuff, like baby carrots and hummus (one of my favorites!), I'll eat that and won't feel too bad. But if I don't, I'll just chow on whatever I can find, and it's usually not healthy! And I also enjoy a beer or two with whatever I'm munching on, so that just ups the calorie count. So my next goal is to keep the healthy snacks in the house at all times and make sure that I choose that instead of the popcorn, chips, etc. And I'd like to limit myself to one beer (light beer, about 100 calories) instead of two. That would be another 100+ calories off my daily total! It's a lot of thinking, but it's not that bad. I think the key is looking at your daily diet (write everything down if you have to), identifying your weak areas, and then making changes. Try to focus on one area at a time so you don't feel really deprived all at once. A lot of it's just common sense and then just making yourself stick to it!

Good luck--we're all in this struggle together!:)

-Marie
 
Kim:

Just a suggestion, but forego the bowl of cereal in the a.m. I am a HUGE cereal lover, and now that I'm pg, eat it a lot, but when I wasn't pg, and I was eating it, I realized that I was STARVING 30 minutes later. I felt like I'd just consumed 200 or so calories for no good reason. Instead, maybe try an english muffin with a morningstar farms sausage patty (AWESOME!) with a small piece of reduced fat cheese. Very healthy 40-30-30 and really tasty.

I know Orange juice is wonderful in the morning, but is it worth the 2 points? My SIL swore she'd never give up her morning oj, but when she joined weight watchers, away it went. An orange would probably be the same points but keep you more full. Or, do you like coffee or tea? Both really help suppress the appetite. That might be a good thing to have at your a.m. snack time to get you thru to lunch. At lunch, maybe (if your schedule allows) eat just the sandwich, and then have the salad later on for your snack just as your getting hungry. Then eat a normal dinner. Try adding in more fruits and vegetables, too. I love raw vegies dipped into Uncle Dan's dip - you buy the seasoning packet, add FF sourcream and Reduced Fat mayo and you have a great, low cal, low fat snack that is healthy and very filling.

If you are dying for something sweet at night, try to have chocolate chips (just a few) or a trick-or-treat size candy bar. Another great thing is Hot Cocoa with low-fat whipped topping. Or have your FF vanilla pudding here.

The main thing is to keep up the great exercise routine.

You're going to start feeling better and more motivated very soon as the nicer weather kicks in.
 

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