You two are not alone, I lost hair with my first child as well. It was so bad that my hairstylist told me that for a while I was going to look like I had two hair styles. One longer than the other. It's a very sad thing, but it does grow back. I didn't try anyting to keep it, maybe Progain, or something like that will help, I have no idea. It's worth trying though! I just wanted to let you know that you aren't alone, I will more than likely be experiencing this in about a year or so again. It's sad because when you're pregnant your hair looks so good and healthy, and then it all falls out. It's a sad trick mother nature plays on us.