if Cede, Jai, Brenda, Lorraine, etc. lurk on the forums to see if anyone writes about them??? Or maybe even if they have a covert profile with no identifying information and actually post? Has anyone ever actually seen them post something?
I've often wondered this myslef. I'm pretty sure Brenda posted when she broke her hip and people were asking about her. I've never seen Jai, Lorraine, or Cedie post, but they could be lurking.