Good morning Phyllis and Tammy and all that follow...
I went to the hospital after work yesterday and daddy was talking better than he was the night before but it is still going to be a long road back. The neurologist saw him yesterday and she told him that very thing but she felt that while he would never be 100% again, he could come close. My stepmom and I drilled and drilled him yesterday on remembering names. He could remember a lot of them but as we continued to work with him, he was getting them on the first try. He couldn't think of my husband's name at first and I had to tell him but after a while I asked him again and he got the first syllable right but missed the name and after a few more tried, he got it.
He is most distressed about reading. Daddy is a very well educated man and very well read. He can't read. He explained to me as best he could that he could read the words one by one but, as I finally understood what he meant, he can't retain the memory of each word to the end of a sentence or paragraph to grasp the meaning of what he is reading. Very distressing for him. But it will come back, he is very determined. They are still setting up his rehab. I believe he will have outpatient speech therapy five days a week, that was the plan as of yesterday and they'll get final word today what his program will be.
As far as preventing more strokes, we are between a rock and a hard place. Daddy was pulled off his anticoagulation in October when he had a major intestinal bleed. He has vascular malformations in his small and large intestine and is in very real danger of another life-threatening bleed if they put him back on anticoagulation. He was on Coumadin (has been for 20 years), Plavix and aspirin. He is in chronic atrial fibrillation and has stents in his heart so without blood thinners, a stroke was almost inevitable. Unfortunately, we have found out there is no "happy medium" with anticoagulation. The best option is to put him on something that can be easily and rapidly reversed in the event of a bleed. His gastroenterologist is going to talk with his neurologist today. Right now they are thinking aspirin.
He is going to get to go home today I believe. That was the plan as of yesterday.
Thank you so much for your thoughts and prayers. I appreciate all of you so much!