I think everyone is looking at fitness in the wrong way.Everyone has a different genetic makeup. Some women build musles easily , some take more work.
Some people can eat anything they want and stay slim, others have to watch what they eat.
I think we just need to strive for the best we can be.As long as we feel good and look decent and keep trying what does it matter.
We are not all going to look like models, but it gives us a reason to keep doing it.
Think of it this way,
You will feel better, look better, and in our older years we won't be in wheel chairs.
I have gone to the gym. I get more out of a workout with videos. I push more to do it all. Otherwise I say, that is it.
Did enough.
Cathe challenges me 7 more when I would have quit.I feel more burn and I don't have to drive and worry about someone watching me .
If I need to pause and get a drink I do, If I want to do heavier or lighter I do.
I listen to my body.
Remember, Cathe does this for a living.
She has been doing this for over 20 years,
Give it time , You will meet your goals.
Until then , you will feel better stronger and firmer.
Just keep on truckin.
Anne