Hi Everyone,
I came across this article and I needed to share!
What are your thoughts on this matter since body image --- How we feel about ourselves is important?
http://psychcentral.com/news/2016/0...tied-to-overall-life-satisfaction/103115.html
Hope we can have a healthy discussion here.
Looking forward to reading from you all
As much as I enjoy working out, love seeing changes in my fitness level, and adore seeing body changes from that hard work, I always remember that this body I'm in will eventually turn to dust. It is impermanent. I like being fit and healthy, but I base my self-worth not on what my body looks like, but on higher values that transcend looks or fitness levels. I don't want to go to my grave and all people can say, "Well, she sure stayed thin through lots of dieting and exercise." When I pass away, I want people to say, "Wow, she really loved people, did so much for others, transformed the world, and taught us whatever wisdom she gained." Sorry if this sounds preachy, as I don't mean it like that. I am
far from being the ideal woman that I want to be in spirit, and in the level of love and concern I have for others.
I think almost all people - myself included - want to look and feel fit, trim, and healthy. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. But when I look at the woman in the mirror, I'm no longer looking at it and gauging my actual worth on what the image looks like. I work out. I do my best. I try to be excellent - not perfect - in all that I do. I usually eat healthy.
I don't smoke, and rarely drink alcohol. I do what I can to care for this earthly body and treat it well, but I know no matter what, it will eventually die. I believe that generally, as a society, we have gotten to a point where we place far more emphasis on looks than we do on building up one's character, love for others, how we meet the needs of others who are less fortunate, and do things with excellence. I'm personally uncomfortable with that cultural ideal at this point in my journey. That's just my opinion, and I apologize if it sounds judgmental or too moralistic.
I sincerely hope that each woman here knows that they are beautiful, wonderful, and
more than good enough right here and now.