Hi Clare,
As you have probably guessed, you and I have the hardest time finding products for our hair type because our hair can get weighed down so easily. Here's some of her recs. and some of my personal favs.
Shampoos-Paula recommends alternating between a shampoo that removes product build up and has no conditioning agents and a shampoo that is volumizing and this is what I do as well.
No Build Up Shampoos- Joico Resolve Chelating Shampoo (this also removes mineral deposits if you swim a lot or have well water), TIGI Bed Head Self Absorbed Mega Vitamin Shampoo, Framesi Biogenol Color Care Clarifying Shampoo, Redken Color Extend Shampoo or Redken Headstrong Shampoo.
Volumizing Shampoos- Charles Worthington Results Everday Shine Shampoo for Dull, Lifeless Hair, ISO Daily Balancing Cleanse Gentle Shampoo, Joico Volissima Volumizing Shampoo, Paul Mitchell Shampoo Two, Bumble and Bumble Thickening Shampoo, ISO Multiplicity Texture Shampoo, Redken Smooth Down Shampoo (my current favorite).
Conditioners- Leave ins are generally not recommended for our hair type so I have not included those although there is a small list if you want it. Let me know. The following are all rinse out conditioners.
Conditioners- Charles Worthington Results Superconditioner, Joico Lite Daily Conditioner, SEXY Concepts Big Sexy Hair, Big Volume Conditioner, Back to Basics Marine Color Protection Conditioner, KMS Color Vitality Color Revitalizer, Redken So Long Conditioner, TIGI Bed Head Control Freak Conditioner.
Paula's number one rule is don't believe what you read on the bottle. Even if a shampoo or conditioner says it's for fine hair, or super dry hair, it's the formulation that counts, not the marketing copy on the bottle. For instance, I would have never considered the Redken Smooth Down Shampoo because reading the copy would make it seems totally inappropriate for my hair type. Yet it works great! Likewise, most conditioners for fine hair are actually quite weighty because they include so many detangling agents. Bad!!
Let me know if you need recs. for styling products (I generally don't use any except hairspray and the occasional use of a shine serum to control flyaways).
HTH