About Cathe's quote

Norma48

Cathlete
I would like to hear from you guys how you apply Cathe's quote, in your personal life whatever area it is, physically or emotionally,
When I read 'Embrace the challenge, do not fear it' I thought of the hard work it is to keep my weight off, after years of loosing 120 lbs, i think how easy it was to focus on dieting and excercising while loosing, now that I am skinny, sometimes I am afraid b/c there are days where I overeat, specially when stressed out, then I focus again and loose the pounds it creeped on me during binging days, so when I read the quote, it did really empowered me and now every little challenge that crosses my path, like with my kids issues of being teen adults, work or dealing with what to eat today, instead of going nuts I think about that quote,: embrace the challenge
Norma
 
Norma, I emailed you about some additional thoughts because I can relate to our experience.

But I wanted to post here that I also love this quote, and it expresses what I think we all feel when it comes to Cathe's presence in our lives, and that is we're capable of so much more than we think we are. She's encouraging in her workouts in a way that you don't want to quit. And when you make it through a workout - the sense of accomplishment is soooo great. I think that's a big part of the reason why she has such a devoted following. Cathe's quote is empowering, but to me, Cathe herself is empowering by creating such intense workouts for us.

Sigh... it's bedtime and I want to work out now!!

Joni
 
Hi Norma,

I absolutely love this quote! It comes into my mind when I start feeling like continuing to lose weight (I've lost 80 pounds so far and have about 55 more to go) and improve my overall fitness is just too much to handle. It's a daily challenge- one I'm sure you can relate too ;), but I know I can do it. I've made it so far, quitting isn't an option- even when I feel a little discouraged. This new life that I've created for myself is SO much better in so many ways than my old unhealthy life.

Congrats on your loss and congrats on maintaining it!! Both of those are amazing and wonderful accomplishments! :)

I also think about this quote when I'm doing a workout- it helps me maintain good form and listen to my body. Sometimes I need to back off on the intensity a bit, other times I know I could be pushing a little bit harder. Embrace the challenge encourages me to do my best each workout to get the most out of it.

Great idea for a thread!

Connie :D
 
Hi Norma,

Just wanted to tell you I visited your web page, and your transformation is incredible! You are so beautiful, and I know you must feel as entirely different inside as you look on the outside. It's like getting a second chance at life, isn't it?

I'm a member of the 100+ club too (127), but I still have about 50 more pounds to go. I've kept my weight off for five years now but, like you, I'm struggling. I hit a weight-loss plateau that lasted over two years, until I finally discovered it was insulin resistance keeping my weight up. I'm being treated now, and I'm losing gradually, but I've become my own worst enemy.

It seems every time I start doing really great, I sabotage myself. I'm afraid it's because I fear the frustration of doing everything right and making no progress again. It's irrational, since I AM making progress, as long as I avoid an all-out binge. I eat incredibly well most of the time. Very clean. I always get right back on my program the next day, and my binges are not of the same scale they used to be, so I'm not losing ground, but I'm not making the forward progress I feel I could be making now. My scales are moving downward, but much, much more slowly than they need to be now that I am being treated.

It's good to know there are others out there experiencing the same challenges. Just reading about you has helped me start one more day out the right way, and I want to thank you for inspiring me. I'd rather none of us were faced with these kinds of challenges, of course, but it's good to know we're not alone. And in many ways, I feel stronger because of it. On my good days, I remember that I've done something truly amazing, and I've changed my way of life entirely, with the expectation of continuing this lifestyle forever. I never, ever want to go back to what I was before. I'm sure you feel this way, too.

Anyway, my point in writing is just to thank you and to say that I truly understand what you've accomplished. Also, if you ever have a bad day and just need to talk, feel free to put me on your buddy list and PM me off the board. I can see you're much younger than I am (I'm 43), but I have a teenage son, and we definitely have our weight loss/fitness struggles in common. I'm a great cheerleader, and cheering for others actually helps me stay on track as well, as I don't want to be a bad example. :)

Best wishes,
Shari
 
We all ROCK!!! What each of us have accomplished is huge (no pun intended) and we should all be SO proud! Do you ever look back at pictures of yourself and wonder how on earth you were ever there?

Shari, I would really like to talk to you about your insulin resistance. I've been stuck on a plateau for 2 years - and no matter how hard I try, no matter how clean my diet, I cannot get the scale to budge - and it's not because I'm building muscle.

This frustration and fear is taking over my life. My BF is very frustrated with me because I have this huge body image problem, and avoid seeing him because of it. We live in different cities and last night he told me flat out that he knows I won't come visit because of my body problem. He's right too.

How were you diagnosed and how are you being treated? My Mom is diabetic, so I wouldn't be surprised if there's a medical link to my inability to lose weight too. Physiologically there's no reason that I'm not losing weight. I burn at least 400-600 calories doing Cathe 6 days a week and I eat very very cleanly. I've babbled about this problem enough in the forum, but I'm at the end of my rope!!

Norma, Connie, Shari - congratulations to you all for your tremendous accomplishment and success changing your lifestyle. We should all be very proud!

Joni
 
>Shari, I would really like to talk to you about your insulin
>resistance. I've been stuck on a plateau for 2 years - and no
>matter how hard I try, no matter how clean my diet, I cannot
>get the scale to budge - and it's not because I'm building
>muscle.


Hi Joni,

Wow, it sounds like we might be in the same boat! I started to e-mail you but decided to put my response on the board instead, just in case anyone else reading is experiencing this. It's very frustrating! In fact, I remember being so frustrated at one point that I just had to throw something. That something was a fifteen-pound dumbbell. I threw it so hard against the concrete floor of my workout room that I broke it! Now that's frustration! I'm not proud of that, but it illustrates my point.

It's funny that I have this problem because, while I was diagnosed with Type II diabetes ten years or so ago, I have not taken meds for this for 3-4 years because my blood sugar levels were completely controlled by diet and exercise and still are. I have a hemoglobin A1C test every six months to confirm this, and my doctor has been thrilled and amazed by my results. She calls me her poster child, because I'm one of the few who is actually doing something to improve my health.

I was at this plateau I told you about, doing research and just listening to anything anybody had to say about it, for two years. Before that, I lost 27 pounds after being at a plateau for another year. (At that point, I was starving myself on 1,100 calories a day and exercising 1-3 hours a day. I gained four pounds during that time.) Everyone said the same thing -- essentially, that I must be doing something wrong. I wasn't.

Finally, someone on this forum mentioned that Polycystic Ovary Syndrome, which I was diagnosed with several years ago, can cause insulin resistance, which can make it absolutely impossible to lose weight. I couldn't imagine that this would apply to me, since I had my blood sugar under control, but I asked my doctor to prescribe Glucophage again so I could see if it helped. It did! I'm three pounds lower than I have been in two years. (I gained twenty-four pounds in the month between Thanksgiving and Christmas two years ago due to a glitch in my thyroid meds.) So, getting a few pounds below my stuck point is HUGE! I take 1,000 mg of Glucophage, twice a day, which is the same amount I was taking when my diabetes was wildly out of control, and I weighed over 300 pounds.

I truly had no idea that insulin resistance could create such a HUGE problem. I honestly believed it was impossible to burn more calories than I ate and still gain/not lose weight -- or at least I would have believed it was impossible if it hadn't happened to me personally. I thought it was my thyroid (which I am also treated for). In truth, it was a combination of several factors, each of which contributed to my inability to lose weight. And it IS a medical issue, no matter what anyone thinks or says. It really can become impossible to lose weight no matter what you do (until you get treatment), so don't let anyone convince you otherwise.

A word of warning, though. It's very hard to convince ANYONE that you CAN'T lose weight. They think you're lying. Even my doctors thought I was either lying or fooling myself. I told my endocrinologist (who should KNOW about this stuff) what was happening. He prescribed a diet pill that costs $150 a month and is not covered by insurance, that is supposed to metabolize fat faster -- even though I told him I was keeping my fats at 10% on a 1400 - 1800 calorie diet. Needless to say, I didn't even try this plan. It was just too ridiculous, and I couldn't afford to try it just for the heck of it -- not to mention the side-effects of this drug, which are not pretty.

Anyway, it really WAS a medical problem. Thyroid issues, which now seem to be under control, starving myself, and raging insulin resistance combined to make it impossible for me to lose weight. Thank goodness I've found something that's working, at least temporarily, before menopause hits! :) Then, I'm afraid I'll have another battle ahead of me, so I'm desperate to get down to my goal weight before that happens.

I do hope you find the answer to your problem. Keep in mind that it might not be just one thing but a combination of factors. It's a very long, painstaking process and frustrating as hell, but don't give up. An answer is out there somewhere, if you can only find it.

If there is anything I can do to help you, just let me know.

Shari
 
THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!!!! I could fly to Kansas and hug you right now!

Your frustrations are *exactly* like mine. I haven't thrown a dumbell - yet - but I've reached that point. Because my life is essentially on hold until I get this worked out - and it's affected me at work, in love, socially etc.

So, in addition to the possibility of insulin resistance, I too have been starving myself silly and working out incessantly to no avail. I remembered reading your posts about physique transformation - so I just searched on your name and found your post here -

http://69.0.137.118/dc/dcboard.php?..._id=118256&mesg_id=118256&listing_type=search

which I was reading when this post popped up.

Shari, I am SO SO grateful to you and so elated right now I feel like I could to Imax3 ten times in a row. {After which I'd fall down dead and all problems would be solved ;-) )

I have been repeatedly tested for hypothyroid, which all comes back in the low normal range - too normal for treatment. Doctors do not believe me when I tell them I CAN'T lose weight. You are so right about that - but I will print out every single food log entry on FitDay AND will show them my workout journal and shove it in their face until they believe me.

I've been doing a lot of reading on line about insulin resistance, and "ding!" like you were predisposed because of PCOS, I'm predisposed genetically. My Mom is Type II diabetic, and my Dad has a history of heart disease as does the rest of his side of the family. PLUS - similar to your story - I became obese at one point, which is probably what triggered the insulin resistance and associated problems for us both. I have all the symptoms - fatigue, depression, etc. So many of these symptoms overlap these conditions that you're right, it could be a combination.

So, thanks to you I'm going to see an endocrinologist to get on glucophage (I wish my Mom would "loan" me some, but she's not comfortable with that) and I'm going to Borders tonight to pick up: http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/t...2/103-4727667-0115035?_encoding=UTF8&v=glance

I know you can relate to the sense of relief I'm feeling that there very well could be a medical reason I'm not losing weight. My BF is very happy, I'm very happy, my Mom's very happy about this. See how many people you made happy today? :D

See? It's true what comes around goes around. You learned about PCOS on these boards, and now I'm learning about insulin resistance from you.

Thank you again SO much - and let's continue to keep each other posted on our progress. We're gonna beat this!!!!

Oh - and thanks to you, I'm no longer afraid to up my calories even more. Right now I still average about 1500. My BMR is 1700, but because I increased my calories from 1300 to 1500 and gained a little weight then stopped, I've been afraid to go any higher. Physique Trans. prescribed going up to 3,000 calories a day for 10-weeks with no cardio. That turned me off, plus the difficulty in getting high diet scores. The program seemed too complicated to me, but at least I learned to up the protein and balance macronutrients. I aim for 40P/30C/30F, although it usually ends up more like 30/50/20 though.

I'm going to PM you a potentially embarrassing question about the glucophage....

I'm so excited!

Joni
 
Norma: i tried to email you a while back after your response to my Peru questions and it was returned to me. I just wanted to tell you that your weight loss and fitness achievments are very motivating and inspiring to me! you look so great and healthy! I think you are amazing!

i love this quote and i use it all the time in my head when i want to eat something unhealthy or i don't want to finish a workout. Especially when upsh ups come around!

great thread!


jes:7
 
Hey Jes - how's the 5-6 small meals coming?

I tried to email Norma thru her profile and it got bounced back to me too, but when I responded to an email she sent me it went through - even though it looks like the same address. Weird. PM me if you want the email I used successfully.

Yeah - embrace the push ups! Think I'll use that for GS Chest and triceps later!!
 
Hi Joni,

I e-mailed you off the boards. I'm going to order the book you mentioned. I put it on my Amazon wish list just now. And I definitely understand your sense of relief and the way this can take over your entire life. I feel exactly the same way.

You stay in touch, now, and let me know if the Glucophage helps you as it is helping me.

Shari
 
To Joni, Shari and Jess,,,,, thanks for your words of complement, I am glad that shari and joni find something in common to talk about, I am sorry about you guys suffereing of insulin, but I heard that the best diet to follow is the diabitis, not the south beach or the zone or the atkins, I have a healthy friend who has no problems and follows that diebitis diet, no salt no sugar no flour and she feels great! so you are in the right track.
Jess I am sorry the email bounced, I hope you had enough info about Peru!again this is my email: [email protected].
All of us are champs, we are working on our bodies, sometimes when people call me geek for running every day or excercising all the time, I think, SO WHAT? THIS IS MY LIFE I run it, and all my strength, as long as I can, is going to be used to keep the pounds off, period, finito, no more arguments, that is my challenge in life and I embrace it.
I want to tell you about my challenges, My challenge is to avoid
heart disease, all my family died of heart problems, strokes, heart attack, high blood pressure, and I suffer of HBP too, when I over eat I not only gain weight, I suffer of headaches, I am dizzy I retain lots of water, geez the list goes on and on. But I try to follow the diabetes diet, low salt etc etc etc. and I feel great. Right now I am doing fine with my eating habits and excercising. So let's continue in this mode of embracing our challenges.
Thanks for making this topic so interesting, I got very emotional reading your posts.
before I leave, other challenge that I had was to follow directions, I mean when I am working out at the gym, usually I get lost, I dont pay attention and I get confused, so when I started to do the step workouts with Cathe, I was really mad I couldnt get it, I ended up turning the tv off and complain, why it was so complicated,... it wasnt complicated, I just needed to focus and pay more attention, so I did that, I accepted the challenge and by the miracle power of remote control, if I couldnt get a combo, I rewinded and practice, practice and practice, I found me being mentally challenged not physically, at the gym you follow 40 knee lifts, right knee first and then the left, with cathe was like: A step, shuffle, struddle, right away, one move after another, I couldnt keep up. Now, to me is like a good mental game with the benefits of cardio, and when I am doing exactly what she is asking I just wooooohooooo....and feel so happy that I could make it... I think in life is the same thing, we need to focus and pay attention, specially when we are being challenged, acknowlodging that we have to work on whatever issue and to not fear it. ARE YOU STILL THERE? OR SLEEP? HAHAHA

The older I get the more I love me.

http://www.geocities.com/norma123nyc/MyJourney.html
 

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