LauraMax
Cathlete
Yeah yeah, I swore I'd never come back but I don't know of any other place where I can get a lot of opinions from women who (hopefully) know what they're talking about. I'm totally clueless about dating & I need help.
So here's the story. About 2 years ago this guy at my gym asked my friend if she'd ask me if I was interested in him. I was just coming off of a very nasty breakup & not only was I not in the right mindset, I was somewhat annoyed that at our age he couldn't just introduce himself & let things take their natural course.
Two years later & I'm kicking myself. I've gotten to know him & I've found I really like him. He's apparently still single & for the last month or so I've been dropping hints like crazy (at least I think I have, but not being very experienced at this could be they're just falling flat). He seems totally open & he also seems to like me, but he hasn't actually asked me out. I won't ask him--as independent as I am I'm still pretty traditional, & also I'm scared to death of rejection (how do men do it?).
Any advice on how to take this to the next level? As in, a nice meal together maybe?
So here's the story. About 2 years ago this guy at my gym asked my friend if she'd ask me if I was interested in him. I was just coming off of a very nasty breakup & not only was I not in the right mindset, I was somewhat annoyed that at our age he couldn't just introduce himself & let things take their natural course.
Two years later & I'm kicking myself. I've gotten to know him & I've found I really like him. He's apparently still single & for the last month or so I've been dropping hints like crazy (at least I think I have, but not being very experienced at this could be they're just falling flat). He seems totally open & he also seems to like me, but he hasn't actually asked me out. I won't ask him--as independent as I am I'm still pretty traditional, & also I'm scared to death of rejection (how do men do it?).
Any advice on how to take this to the next level? As in, a nice meal together maybe?