>That would be nice. Some good ideas here, that I'll have to
>try real soon. I've been thinking that I need to go up, too,
>but on the chest fly exercise 20 is too much for me right now.
> I tried it once and couldn't do chest for over a week because
>the area was tender.
I don't do more than 17.5# on flyes. This is an isolation move, so it logically takes less weight than a chest press, which is a compound move. In PUB, where Cathe moves from one to another, I simply change dumbbells, so I do the flyes at 12/15/17/5# and the presses at 15/20/25#. I plan to go up in my presses (to 17.5/22/5/27.5 then to 20/25/30) but not in my flyes. I personally don't think my shoulders would like to try that heavy a weight.
Holding two dumbbells works for small dumbbells (ie: 5# + 3# to make 8#) and in moves like bicep curls or lat rows, where you are not under the weight and can control your grip better, but I would try flyes/presses or overhead moves with them.