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I guess this pregnancy wasn't meant to be...

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Old 01-08-2010, 01:48 PM
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Yesterday I noticed pain in my right side, the side that always hurts when I ovulate. It got worse and this morning when I woke up I started bleeding. I took a digital test again and it actually said "not pregnant." So my OB advised me to go to the ER, where they did the blood test. I only have a hcg level of 9.0 now so it likely dropped from when I got a positive on Tuesday. I have an appointment with my OB on Monday to get my blood tested again to make sure that the hcg will keep dropping. She doc didn't say for sure that it's a miscarraige and that my cervix was still closed, but I'm bleeding heavier and heavier as the day goes on. We've been trying for 1.5 years. We are so happy with Taylor and if she's the only child that we can have then we are so blessed. I just don't know what to do with myself right now. I feel like a part of me is missing even though it was so early on. DH says to try and take my mind off of it. I'm not sure how to do that? I can't help but think it was something I did, like exercise too much, or what if I took progesterone to help maintain my lining...my temps were quite low even after ovulation. I need to just make it until Monday when hopefully I can get some answers.
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Bethany - I am so sorry. I hope it's not a miscarriage. Try to take care of yourself. Thinking of you and your family.
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I'm so sorry Bethany!!! (((HUGS)))
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Bethany-Im so very sorry!!! Do NOT blame yourself...it was nothing you did. I"ll be praying for you!
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NO!!!! Bethany! I am sooooooooo sorry. This totally sucks & is unfair

Hopefully the bleeding is not indicative of a miscarriage....but if it is, know that most miscarriages are due to chormosomal defects & not by anything that you did/didn't do.

We're here for you, girlie. (hugs)(hugs)
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Bethany, I'm so sorry to hear this. We're here for all the "virtual" support we can provide!
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I'm sooo sorry. Hugs and prayers your way.

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