stardust9771
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I HAVE A PROBLEM WITH A COWORKER THAT I NEED ADVICE ON. I WORK IN A SMALL OFFICE AND HAVE BEEN THERE FOR ALMOST A YEAR. ABOUT 5 MONTHS AGO, WE HIRED ANOTHER STAFF MEMBER. AT FIRST SHE SEEMED VERY NICE. I EVEN WROTE UP A WORK OUT FOR HER TO LOOSE WEIGHT (SHE'S 4' 11" AND WEIGHS 160). ANY WAY, ABOUT A MONTH LATER, SHE STARTED TO IMITATE ME WHILE I WAS ON THE PHONE (WHICH i INITIALLY IGNORED). THEN, I HAD SOME HEALTH ISSUES, WHICH I MISTAKENLY CONFIDED TO HER. ABOUT A WEEK LATER SHE STARTED LOOKING AT ME WHEN OTHER COWORKERS CAME IN OUR WORKING AREA STATING "IT SMELLS IN HERE!" AND STARRING RIGHT AT ME. THEN, THE NEXT DAY, WE RECEIVED A FAX AND SHE ASKED MY OTHER COWORKER IF SHE NEEDED IT AND SHE SAID "NO, IT'S CRAP, THROW IT OUT!" THE OTHER WOMAN TURNED AROUND AND LOOKED RIGHT AT ME AND SAID "WELL, xxxx, IF IT LOOKS LIKE CRAP, SMELLS LIKE CRAMP AND ACTS LIKE CRAP --- IT'S CRAP" MY OTHER COWORKER'S FACE BECAME BEET RED AND SHE JUST STARTED SHAKING HER HEAD IN DISBELIEF!
I CONFRONTED THIS WOMAN, WHO INITIAL SAID SHE NEVER SAID THAT! AND I TOLD HER I'M NOT GOING TO PUT UP WITH THIS ANY MORE!! IT STOPPED FOR ABOUT A MONTH, THEN THE OTHER DAY SHE CAME IN LATE AND MY OTHER COWORKER AND I WERE TAKING ABOUT A SHOW AND SHE WALKS IN AND SAYS "I HATE THAT SHOW." AND I SAID "WELL, I LIKE IT". SHE THEN SAID "WELL THAT'S BECAUSE YOU'RE A FAGGOT!" I SAID WHAT DID YOU SAY TO ME, AND SHE SAID OH I'M JUST KIDDING! I AM A MARRIED WOMAN WITH 2 KIDS. THIS IS THE LAST STRAW. IN THE BEGINNING, I WAS NOTHING BUT NICE TO THIS WOMAN AND NOW SHE IS LAUNCHING VINDICTIVE PERSONAL ATTACKS ON ME!
MY OTHER COWORKER DOES NOT WANT TO GET INVOLVED AND I'M NOT SURE IF I SHOULD GET MY BOSS INVOLVED. I'VE NEVER BEEN IN THIS SITUATION BEFORE!:-(
I CONFRONTED THIS WOMAN, WHO INITIAL SAID SHE NEVER SAID THAT! AND I TOLD HER I'M NOT GOING TO PUT UP WITH THIS ANY MORE!! IT STOPPED FOR ABOUT A MONTH, THEN THE OTHER DAY SHE CAME IN LATE AND MY OTHER COWORKER AND I WERE TAKING ABOUT A SHOW AND SHE WALKS IN AND SAYS "I HATE THAT SHOW." AND I SAID "WELL, I LIKE IT". SHE THEN SAID "WELL THAT'S BECAUSE YOU'RE A FAGGOT!" I SAID WHAT DID YOU SAY TO ME, AND SHE SAID OH I'M JUST KIDDING! I AM A MARRIED WOMAN WITH 2 KIDS. THIS IS THE LAST STRAW. IN THE BEGINNING, I WAS NOTHING BUT NICE TO THIS WOMAN AND NOW SHE IS LAUNCHING VINDICTIVE PERSONAL ATTACKS ON ME!
MY OTHER COWORKER DOES NOT WANT TO GET INVOLVED AND I'M NOT SURE IF I SHOULD GET MY BOSS INVOLVED. I'VE NEVER BEEN IN THIS SITUATION BEFORE!:-(