What I'm about to tell you all doesn't belong here on this forum, but in all fairness to MsB. (Patty), this is the only place she knows where to find me. Some of you on here already know all this, but I want you all to hear it since you are all involved now and I don't believe it's fair that you stick up for me not knowing what transpired.
Last summer I had an online affair with Patty's husband. I met him on another forum I was on and this went on for several months. We exchanged many emails, pm's, pictures and phone calls. I am ashamed and sorry for what I have done. I hurt my husband very badly and we are still struggling to get over this. We have more good days now then bad, but sometimes it is still very difficult. I am doing everything I can to get our marriage back on track.
My husband and I are moving on, that is the important part. We want our marriage to work and we are trying to leave the past behind us. We have had a great summer together with our motorcycles and the trips we have taken. We found something we both have in common that neither of us knew - our love for motorcycles. We have also been doing a lot of work on our house together and just spending much quality time together. It has been great and I intend on it staying that way.
Patty, I am truly sorry for what we've done. We never meant to hurt anyone, especially you or my husband. What we did was wrong and I for one will never ever do it again. You don't know what you got until it's gone and I almost found that out. I love my husband and I do not want to lose him. I can't imagine my life without him.
I hope you and your husband can move on. I hope you can put the past behind you and work things out with him. I know he loves you. I wish you the best, truly I do.
Thanks for listening everyone. If this changes the way you see me, well so be it. I am human, I made a mistake and I am trying to make it right. The only one I need to worry about in this situation is my husband. As long as he is by my side, we will be able to live our life to its fullest.
((¸¸.·´ ..·´ -:¦:- Debbie
"Nothing that matters comes easy, Nothing that comes easy ever really matters..."